Our family

The family it was built for.

I didn’t set out to make an app. I set out to bring my own family back to the same table. We’re the Proctors — two parents and five children — and here’s what that actually looks like in our house.

Why this exists

A father built this.

I have five children, and life got busy the way life does. Somewhere in the rush we started to feel less like a family and more like seven people sharing an address. Everybody was moving. Nobody was moving together. My wife was worn to a nub — not because she wasn’t trying, but because the work that belonged to our children kept landing on her anyway.

A lot of parents know that feeling. You get worn down and frustrated — at the children, sure, but also at the quiet trap of doing children’s work just to keep the day moving. When you step in, you aren’t teaching responsibility. You’re canceling out their footprint with your own labor. The house looks run. The lesson doesn’t land.

I didn’t want a chore app. I wanted my family back. I wanted each of my children to feel like they belonged here, like they mattered to how this home runs. Because they do. Familynomics is what came out of that.

How it started
Our first chore board in 2020 — handwritten on a whiteboard
2020 · the first board
A more refined chore board in 2023
2023 · refined
The Familynomics app — a child's chore board on a phone
today · the app

What started as a whiteboard on our kitchen wall became an app built on one idea: every person carries their share of what the home costs, earns a little for going beyond it, and a family learns to pull together.

Our family folding laundry together by the fire

Folding the wash together — a weeknight in our house.

Why they earn real money

Not a bribe. A lesson that pays.

People ask why we’d pay children for what a family should just do. Here’s the honest answer: covering their share isn’t what earns the money — that’s just pulling their weight. The little they earn is for going beyond it, and it stays little: a dollar or two, whatever we set. It isn’t a bribe to make them help. It’s how they learn what a dollar is, what their own work is worth, and what it feels like to carry a real part of something bigger than themselves.

Maybe it’s right for your family too.

It’s open to its first families now. Yours could be one of them.

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